By Chris Seiter

Updated on November 14th, 2022

Imagine that your ex girlfriend has broken up with you but there is no way that she would ever take you back.

And I mean NO WAY…

Wouldn’t you like to know?

Well, with the latest video from Ex Girlfriend Recovery I talk about the six behaviors that a woman will exhibit when she is completely over you.

I bet you are just itching to watch it, right?

Video Transcript

Oh hello there.

Chris how do you know that your ex girlfriend is over you?

How do you know if your ex girlfriend is over you? Why don’t I make you a video to show you.

So without a doubt the number 1 question I get asked pretty much on a daily basis is “Hey Chris here is my situation when you look at it does it look like I have a chance for success?” Will I succeed?

I’m gonna tell you the same exact thing I tell the other men on my website that ask me that. You have a chance but that chance doesn’t guarantee success. The last thing you want to do is go after a girl or and ex that you think you have a chance with but in her mind there is no way EVER that she’ll take you back. So I thought a lot about how I was going to structure this video and I decided I was going to do it in a checklist format.

Now if you don’t what checklist format is (SKIT)

Now you may be wondering, I totally get the checklist format thing but what goes on the checklist. What are we going to be covering?

That’s a great question, the hardest thing for me to do is give you a quantifiable list of this is exactly the type of girl thats going to be over. This is the exact situation where your ex girlfriend  is never going to take you back. Ah it really doesn’t work that way. Women are complex creatures.

I’ve been doing this for several years. I’ve answered thousands and thousands of comments, millions of people have come to my websites. Ok so over the course of all these years of being in touch with the visitors there and seeing this amount of situations.  I’ve started to find out some common correlations between the types of behaviors that women exhibit when they are completely over men.

So here’s what I’m going to do for you. I’m giving you checklist format (SKIT) I’m going to tell you 6 behaviors that a women will exhibit if she is completely over you. Now instead of listening to me ramble on and do more skits. YAAAAY, Did you say more skits?? (SKIT) No, lets just get right to it.

Behavior #1: Ignores Your Attempts To Talk (SKIT)

Now everyone that wants to get their ex girlfriend back is going to have a unique situation they find themselves in. The one exception to that rule is if you want to get your ex girlfriend back just like everyone else out there, your going to have to communicate with her.

But what happens if you communicate via text message or phone calls and she completely ignores you. Well that’s not a good behavior. In fact thats the type of behavior of a woman that is over you. You know a lot of men that have this happen freak out and think its completely over but the thing that you have to remember for this checklist she has to exhibit over 75% of these behaviors of this list. So don’t freak out yet. Let’s hop on to #2.

Behavior #2: Not So Engaged When You Talk (SKIT)

So let’s say for arguments sake you send your ex girlfriend a text message, she responds to the text message but her response isn’t really in-depth. In fact, it seems she is very uninterested. And this trend continues over and over and over again and you don’t know what to do. Well that’s a bad behavior. Anytime you ex girlfriend seems uninterested in what your talking about its not good.

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Generally speaking a woman who is interested in you is going to be interested in what you have to say. While a woman who is not into you is not going to be interested in what you say.

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Behavior #3: She Tells You It’s Over



It always hurts when a girl tells you that she’s completely over you. No matter if she means it or not it hurts. Now the thing that I would really advise you to do here is to take a look at her actions instead of her words. If her actions are saying something different than what she is actually saying then she probably doesn’t mean what she is saying.

And that’s where my actions versus words theory comes into play. Basically you take a look at a persons actions instead of their words. If their actions say a completely different thing than their words then the most likely explanation here is that she really doesn’t mean what she says.

Let me give you an example.


My actions clearly say that I was not streaking across the room. Thank god for that.

And here is the lesson that I want you to take from that. If she tells you that she’s over you. Take it with a grain of salt. Instead, wait some time and take a look at what her actions are saying instead.

Behavior #4: She Dates Someone Else


It’s never easy to watch your ex girlfriend date someone else especially if you are still in love with her. And it’s a behavior that she will exhibit if she is over you. Now, don’t let that upset you too much. Just because it’s a behavior that she exhibits doesn’t mean that she is going to be completely over you.

In fact, I’ve seen multiple cases where a guy has gotten his ex back when she’s went on the rebound. It happens all the time. And remember what I said at the beginning of this checklist. 75% of the times have to be checked off for me to consider your ex completely over you.

Behavior #5: Gets Into A Fight With You A Lot


Have you ever been in a relationship before where it seemed like every single time you talked to your girlfriend you just got into a fight?

I’ve been in one of these relationships and let me tell you it SUCKS! And it’s the type of behavior that I think a lot of unsuccessful relationships have. Now, that doesn’t mean that fighting isn’t normal. Fighting is very normal… every couple probably gets into a fight every now and then.

But there is a difference between the intensity level of the fights and the consistency of them.

Let me give you an example from my past. My first girlfriend ever… we got into a fight pretty much every single week we were dating. In fact, sometimes we got into fights every single day we were dating. And we dated for a YEAR!

Our relationship was plagued with fights and then after the breakup,


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We got into a fight every single time we talked after the breakup.

Now heres a general rule of thumb for you. If you and your ex girlfriend can’t get through a conversation after the breakup without having a fight its a pretty good indication that she’s getting to the point where she is over you. Now, is she over you completely? Maybe not but give it time.

Speaking personally I prefer to live in harmony instead of anger.

Behavior #6: No In Person Interaction


Everything I teach on my websites Ex Girlfriend Recovery and Ex Boyfriend Recovery culminates with this idea of an in person interaction.

Basically moving you from point A (where you are right now) to point B (an in person interaction.) Now, an in person interaction is categorized as anything where you and your ex girlfriend are in the same room or place together.

But what if you can never advance that far?

Well, I hate to break this to you but it’s kind of impossible to get your ex girlfriend back if you aren’t in the same room with her at some point during the re-attraction phase.

And it’s also a huge behavior that your ex girlfriend will exhibit if she is completely over you. Now, I don’t know about you but I don’t hang out with people I don’t like.

It’s common sense really.	

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