What To Do If Your Ex Girlfriend Ignores Or Avoids You On Purpose

Have you ever had someone you love more than anything in the world ignore you?

I have and let me tell you that it sucks.

To this day I can’t think of a more helpless feeling than sending a text message or calling your significant other and being ignored on purpose.

There is this sense of desperation that overcomes you and it motivates your every move. Instead of leaving it at just one missed text or phone call you up the count to thirty and it’s almost like someone else is controlling your actions.

I imagine you know the feeling when it comes to your ex girlfriend, huh?

Well, today I am going to open your eyes a bit about how the mind of a woman works. More specifically, I am going to let you in on why your ex girlfriend is ignoring you or avoiding you on purpose. Of course, in addition to that I will also be giving you a game plan on what to do going forward if you are currently in a situation where you are being ignored or avoided.

First though, lets talk about why your ex girlfriend is ignoring you.

Why Does My Ex Girlfriend Ignore Me?

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I can’t tell you how many times I get this question on a daily basis from desperate men out there.

Actually… I think I can.

Give me a moment please.

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Ok, I went through the emails and comments from yesterday and I received this question in some way, shape or form twelve times. So, if twelve is my daily average of receiving this question then that means that this question is asked a total of 4,380 to me every single year by 4,380 different men.

Now, I don’t know about you but to me that is a lot.

So, if you are one of these 4,380 men wondering why your ex girlfriend is ignoring or avoiding you allow me to tell you what I tell every one of these men.

There are literally hundreds of little reasons she could be ignoring you.

Now, since I am such a stand up guy I am going to give you in-depth analysis of the most common reasons your ex girlfriend may have for ignoring you.

Lets begin!

Reason 1- She Is Angry At You

anger
Anger is a pretty strong emotion and it could be fueling her reasoning for ignoring you.

What does your ex girlfriend have to be angry about?

Well, for starters the two of you just broke up and many experts say that going through a breakup is sometimes worse than losing a job and if any of you have lost a job when you absolutely needed money then you will understand the pain that goes along with that.

Of course, usually women focus in on something specific that you did wrong during the breakup and remain angry at that.

For example, if your ex girlfriend walked in on you and her sister in bed then she is absolutely going to have all the motivation she could ever need to stay angry at you and ignore you. Another common thing that I know women get angry about is something you said about them during a heated argument or fight.

Lets say that during the breakup you and your ex girlfriend got into a massive fight and during a very heated moment you called her fat (even though she isn’t.) Well, this little comment made by you during this fight stuck with her and she never forgot about it.

In fact, she became so furious about it that she vowed to never talk to you again.

(Don’t worry, I am going to show you how to overcome this a little bit later.)

Reason 2- You Became The “Crazy Ex Boyfriend.”

crazy ex girlfriend

Desperation does some funny things to people.

No seriously!

I have heard some of the craziest stories about exes you can imagine.

One time there was this guy that became so desperate to get his ex back that he crashed her wedding and tried to break it up.

(FYI he failed.)

The last thing you want to do is to be viewed as the “crazy ex boyfriend.” You have heard those types of stories I am sure. You know, the ones where the crazy ex boyfriend stalks the ex girlfriend until she has to take out a restraining order.

If your ex girlfriend views you as that crazy ex then that could be a motivating factor in her attempts to ignore and avoid you.

What are the classic signs of a “crazy ex boyfriend?”

I am glad you asked.

There are generally three ingredients to a crazy ex so you want to make sure you avoid these at all costs,

  1. He becomes a texting and calling terrorist.
  2. He will do things that can be considered stalking.
  3. He will be emotional to the point of being viewed as unstable.

Now, understanding “the crazy ex boyfriend” traits are very important because they all contribute to why your ex could potentially be avoiding you.

Below, I am going to dive a little bit deeper into the traits.

One- He Becomes A Texting And Calling Terrorist

You are a guy right?

(Well, I am assuming you are.)

Have you ever had a girl that was head over heels for you to the point where it was kind of creepy.

I have and let me tell you that it is not very fun. Sure, as men we all like to feel admired by the opposite sex but there is a point where it can become too much. I once had a girl harass me because I wouldn’t respond to her. Seriously, our conversations would look like this,

crazy girl texting

Ok, so clearly this girl has some issues.

I like to reserve a special spot for these type of people. I like to call them texting or calling terrorists.

What is a text/call terrorist?

I am glad you asked.

Text/Call Terrorist- Someone who bombards you with an insane amount of text messages or phone calls in desperation or for any other reason.

Probably the craziest example of a texting or calling terrorist I can think of has to be a story of a woman in the picture below,

woman arressted

Apparently, some nutty Dutch woman called her ex boyfriend a total of 65,000 times a year.

Now, to put this in perspective that is 178 phone calls a day. To minimize even further that is seven calls an hour.

Can you imagine that?

Seven phone calls an hour for an entire year?

That is insane.

What is the point I am trying to get at here?

DON’T HARASS YOUR EX GIRLFRIEND AND BECOME A TEXTING/CALLING TERRORIST.

Two- He Will Do Things That Can Be Considered Stalking

Apparently, the crazy Dutch woman in the story above got arrested for stalking but that isn’t really what I am getting at here.

Though, I will admit that if you call your ex that much you should be arrested for stupidity AND stalking.

When I personally think of stalking I get this specific picture in my head. It’s a creepy looking guy that just follows one specific person around without being seen.

Hmm…

This pretty much sums up the picture I get in my head,

stalker mode

Anyways, if you show up at your ex girlfriends house unannounced and uninvited multiple times then congratulations you are the stalker guy pictured in the gif above.

Three- He Is Perceived As Emotionally/Mentally Unstable

Unstable scare me to death.

Some people say they are creepy..

No, they aren’t creepy they are flat out scary.

You want some examples of emotionally/mentally unstable people?

  • Hitler- Mass murdered 11 MILLION people.
  • Batman Shooter (Not Even Worth Mentioning This Guys Name)- I am sure you remember the day the Dark Knight Rises came out in theaters and some nut ball went in with a machine gun and shot people.
  • Columbine Shooters- Two mentally unstable young men go into school one day and essentially start a massacre.

Now, these are very extreme examples.

In fact, some would argue that they are the most extreme examples of unstable people. However, I gave you extreme examples on purpose so your mind would immediately jump there. Look, you know as well as I do that mentally/emotionally unstable people aren’t attractive, they are scary as hell.

So, if your ex girlfriend perceives you as emotionally or mentally unstable then you have a serious problem because she put you in the unstable category with the people mentioned above.

What constitutes you as being perceived as emotionally and mentally unstable?

Imagine for a moment that it is me instead of you trying to get your ex girlfriend back (in other words you and I switch places for the day.)

Lets say that I call your ex girlfriend like crazy, I show up unannounced, I threaten to hurt myself if she doesn’t cooperate and the list just goes on and on.

That Type Of Behavior = Emotionally/Mentally Unstable

Reason Three- She Is Trying To Move On By Cutting You Out

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This is the reason you really didn’t want to hear, huh?

I know, I know, it sucks to even think about this possibility but it is a possibility so I can’t leave it out.

As many of my informed readers know this isn’t the only self help relationship website I own. In fact, I also own another website called Ex Boyfriend Recovery in which I help women try to get back with their exes. Well, sometimes when women get fed up with their exes they decide that they want to move on with their lives instead of being hurt all the time by an unresponsive ex boyfriend.

These types of women often ask me what I think the best/fastest way is for them to move on.

My response is pretty simple!

Cut your ex out of your life entirely.

Of course, I don’t have first movers status on this idea at all. In fact, I wasn’t even close to the second person to have this epiphany about moving on. No, there are a lot of capable people out there that can come to this conclusion on their own.

So, it could be possible that your ex girlfriend is ready to move on from you entirely and that is why she is ignoring or avoiding you.

A Bit Of Good News With This

I imagine some of you going into panic mode wondering thoughts like,

“What if my ex is moving on from me and that is why she is ignoring me?”

In my experience, in helping people with relationships for three years I have learned that it is extremely hard for people to cut their exes out of their life entirely. Only a select few can do it successfully and guess what, yours truly couldn’t do it during his first breakup.

Yep, I even failed at this during my very first breakup.

So, the odds are in your favor that your ex girlfriend won’t be able to move on from you by cutting you out of her life entirely.

What To Do If Your Ex Girlfriend Is Ignoring Or Avoiding You

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Now that we understand the main reasons for why your ex girlfriend may ignore you lets shift our focus to what you need to be doing to prevent that from happening.  Now, in my book, Ex Girlfriend Recovery PRO, I go through a specific set of steps that you have to follow in order to get your ex girlfriend to NOT ignore you.

Here is a quick peek at those steps,

Step One- Flip The Script With No Contact

Step Two- Successfully Make Contact With Your Ex (Post NC)

Now, before I move on I do want to state that the purpose of this entire article is to simply take you from this point,

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To this point,

empty

In other words, if you follow the advice laid out on this page you will most likely move from your ex girlfriend ignoring you to her not ignoring you. However, if you want her back in your life permanently there is a lot more you have to do than to just regain her attention.

If you want those specific steps I recommend checking out my E-Book,

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Ok, now that we have that out of the way lets take a look at how the three steps above can help you regain your exes attention.

Step One- Flip The Script With No Contact

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Right now your ex girlfriend is ignoring you (on purpose) and you are kind of freaking out about it.

Hey, don’t worry I totally get it.

I have been through my fair share of experiences in which someone I really care for ignored me on purpose and let me tell you it is a very disheartening feeling. Seriously, there are moments where you just want to scream at the top of your lungs at how unfair your love life is.

I have a fun question for you.

What do you think happens to most men when an ex girlfriend they really want to talk to ignores them on purpose?

They become super desperate and turn into those calling and texting terrorists that I mentioned above.

Women kind of get a kick out of it too when a man does this.

I am always telling the women over on my other site, Ex Boyfriend Recovery, that men are the ones that crave admiration but the truth is that human beings in general love to feel admired and the last time I checked human beings also included women.

I mean, ask any woman what she would like more,

Option A- A man who makes her feel loved and admired?

or

Option B- A man who doesn’t?

Pretty much all women are going to say that they prefer option A.

So, why is it that woman are constantly chasing the guys that don’t make them feel loved or admired?

Well, it’s because they think that eventually a guy is going to change and show them the admiration and love they feel they deserve.

And therein lies the point.

An underlying reason that your ex girlfriend could potentially be ignoring you is that she knows it will illicit a reaction from you. She understands that no one likes being ignored and that you may be upset and go crazy. She is hoping that it will draw out that admiration and love that she so desperately wants.

How To Turn The Tables On Her

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Lets assume for a minute that the following scenario occurs,

You and your ex girlfriend just broke up. She initiated it citing that you really never show any emotion towards her anymore. It’s essentially a loveless relationship to her. Of course, you are absolutely furious and don’t want the breakup. So, as the days pass you keep trying to text and call her. Unfortunately for you she is completely ignoring you.

How do you overcome this?

It’s funny, this scenario reminds me of a funny story a buddy of mine once told me.

You see, his girlfriend and him were fighting over something really stupid (for the life of me I can’t remember.) So, she decided that it would be a good idea to ignore him while she was at work. Now, my friend (who worked from home) was absolutely furious that he decided to one up her by not being there when she showed up at home.

In his mind she would come home, feel horrible about the whole situation and apologize profusely to him.

He told me he spent the whole day just going out and having fun. He treated himself to a man day so to speak. He went to the movies, ate at a nice restaurant and by the end of the day, when he felt enough time had passed, he decided to come home.

Now, my buddy knew his girlfriend usually got home at 5:30 PM so he didn’t come home until 6:30PM when he knew for a fact that she would be there wallowing in her own misery.

What happened next in the story made quite the impression on me.

He said he came home and SHE wasn’t there.

As a result, my buddy ended up apologizing to HER.

Now, what ended up happening was that when his girlfriend came home and realized he wasn’t there she decided to go out and spend some time on herself which essentially crushed my friend. You see, my buddy was sure that when he came home he was going to teach his girlfriend a lesson and she was going to apologize to him. I

Instead, it was him who got the lesson.

Your situation with your ex girlfriend is probably a lot like that. Your ex is trying to teach you a lesson by ignoring you so she is going to have a similar expectation that my friend had about his girlfriend. She is going to think to herself,

“He is definitely going to show me so much attention when I ignore him that I will be swimming in admiration.”

In other words, the expectation that you are going to be like every other guy in the world is there.

So, if you can overcome that expectation and do the opposite of what she is expecting all of a sudden it will be her who starts to rethink things and realize the mistake she has made.

She Ignores You… You Ignore Her Right Back

In my E-Book, Ex Girlfriend Recovery PRO, I recommend something I like to call the no contact rule.

If you don’t know what that is then let me make it easy for you.

What your ex girlfriend is doing to you right now, ignoring you. Well, it is essentially doing that to her for a specific period of time.

I recommend the 21 day no contact rule for general situations. However, if you want more advice on what length of time you should use when you implement the no contact rule I recommend reading my book or checking out this article.

Step Two- Successfully Make Contact With Your Ex Girlfriend (Post NC)

let me love you

If you are successful in your attempt to turn the tables on your ex girlfriend then congratulations, you have completed the first step of the process.

Step one (turning the tables on your ex) was all about putting her in a frame of mind where she is wanting to hear for you or wanting to message you. While this is essentially in making her not ignore you it doesn’t necessarily mean that she will stop ignoring you. No, it just means that she probably doesn’t want to anymore.

Step two is all about successfully making contact with your ex girlfriend.

Now, when I say,

“Successfully making contact with your ex girlfriend”

What do you think I mean?

What constitutes success?

Well, if you have read this far down on the page then I am assuming that your ex girlfriend is currently ignoring or avoiding you. That means that whenever you do reach out to her via a text message or a phone call she isn’t responding or picking up.

Why?

Probably because she isn’t really looking forward to your text messages or phone calls.

This is why step one (turning the tables on her) is so essential.

It basically primes her so that she is looking forward to your text messages or phone calls.

In other words,

Step two cannot successfully occur unless step one is completed. So, don’t even think about reaching out to your ex until you have successfully turned the tables on her.

As for reaching out to her…

The Correct Way To Reach Out To Your Ex Girlfriend

Once you feel you have your ex girlfriend properly primed or looking forward to hearing from you (step one) you can go ahead and reach out to her to test and see if she is going to ignore you anymore.

Basically if she responds to your text or phone call then you know for a fact you have broken the ignoring/avoiding barrier that has been plaguing you so far.

Now, this brings up a very interesting question.

What is the correct way to reach out to your ex girlfriend?

Some will swear by a well timed phone call.

Others think its a good idea to write a note.

I am actually not a big fan of any of those methods right off the bat.

Is there a time and a place for them down the road?

Absolutely.

However, in my opinion this is not the time or place for that.

Instead, I opt for a less aggressive approach with a text message.

Of course, when I say text message I don’t mean a “reach out” text message like the one pictured below.

carly messag

I seriously hate text messages like that.

There is no substance to them.

I mean, what is interesting about saying hi to someone?

This is why I have a very strict rule when it comes to reaching out to your ex for the first time after a no contact period (step one.)

The rule?

Your text message has to be so interesting that it would be impossible for your ex NOT to respond to it.

Now, after reading that I bet you are wondering,

“What does a text message that is impossible NOT to respond to look like?”

That is a good question.

I have an example for you here.

(After you click on the link read the text below but only after you click on it.)

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

You clicked on the link didn’t you?

There wasn’t an example of a text message was there? Just a promotion for my E-Book (which you should invest in by the way.)

I did this on purpose because I wanted to show you that I MADE you take that action. I made you click on that link because you were captivated.

Now, imagine if you could do that to your ex girlfriend with a text message?

Oh, and the E-Book does really have examples of text messages like that.

		

Written by EGR team mate

Chris Seiter

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Ter
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hi. my girlfriend and I stayed together for about 4 years. we broke up after I went away to start my business I made a car accident with her car and we broke up. we broke up about 16 months ago but we were in contact everyday after the accident and went out a few times and had fun. she unusually send love songs and we even spoke about working on things. now this past month and a half she is like ignoring me and don’t show any attempt like she used to. what should I do????

Jake
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Hi me and my girlfriend went out for about 2.5 years And we were always in that “happy place” ALways all over each other but in the last few months of our relationship we started kind of drifting apart and finally she broke up with me saying its because of her father he wont approve We had this big fight at the time of breaking up And I got so crazy and desperate i constantly (mistake on my part i guess) called her and texted her but i didnt get any reply for atleast about a month Then finally she… Read more »
Damian Piekut
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Hi, I hope you can help me. My now ex girlfriend broke up with me – how surprising. We were living together at her parent’s. It was rather remote part of thr city, so it was taking an hour to get anywhere. This way I was always coming back very late, without energy. I always just turned my pc on and sat there. She felt unloved, and when she found out I am thinking of moving out, hell broke lose. I managed the situation, but something happened. A few weeks later she told me she does not want to live… Read more »
Damian Piekut
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Thanks. She just texted me about buying a camera. I think there is something going on.
However, is the no contact the best solution if I was not showing her enough interest in the first place?

Damian Piekut
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I have just found out she no longer lives with her parents. I think she moved to new boyfriend

Jay
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Hi! So my girlfriend of 5 months broke up with me about two weeks ago. We were always a good couple never got into any arguments, shared intimate moments, and were overall always happy with each other. However, the 3 weeks prior to the breakup our relationship got a little iffy. There were petty arguments, things like me wanting her to keep the read message on because it makes me paranoid and her not wanting to, her saying she had to leave but then she’d be talking to her friends, nothing major but we always would talk it out. We… Read more »
Joe
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So I broke up with my gf of a year and a half 4 months ago and we have been in contact since then texting every 3/4 days about the break up and I have been trying to convince her to give us another chance. We had mini break ups but got back together. But she ended it this time. She has a daughter and is very independent I guess I tried to make the relationship about us seeing each other all time. So she won’t listen to what I have to say and just st says we don’t be… Read more »
Ray
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Hi, after reading the article and some of the coments I decided to give it a try. You see, after my and I broke up (I’m saying it this way because it was a mutual agreement) we had ups and downs. She even once said that she will love me even if she gets married to somebody else (which she said when she was in another relationship). I’ll detail the episodes between us in order for easier reading: 1- [Around 2010] We chat a lot after sometime of breaking up, conversation gets flirty, she confesses she would love me even… Read more »
Ray
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PS: I would like to edit my coment regading dates, if not I would like to delete it after you help me with your reply.

Many thanks!

EGR Team Member: Amor
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EGR Team Member: Amor

Hi Ray,

To be honest, it would be better not be friends with her because she’s clearly ignoring you. Maybe to help you move on or in respect to her current relationship.

Cato
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Hello! I met a girl a few months ago. We spent hours every single day talking to eachother. We opened up to eachother, and i travelled to her several times to visit her and meet her kids. She is 33 and i am soon 30. after a few months, she became curious about why i haven’t opened myself up more, since she saw that i have a few problems. I have PTSD which i never spoke about to begin with.. and that i enjoyed alcohol and gaming a bit too much. Then she got tired of that and broke up… Read more »
Cato
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PS: She still thinks that i cheated on her and checking up on new girls, eventhough i told her that i’m not doing that.

EGR Team Member: Amor
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EGR Team Member: Amor

Hi Cato,
Tell her you understand her decision now but being friends is not workable right now, thank her for everything and then start nc.. Dont tell her you’re doing nc..

Oliver
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Hi Amor, so I did the 30 days no contact….messed it up once then (before learning about the Tide Theory) since we met one drunk night etc. (wasn’t that bad, just that whatever she said that night wasn’t up the next morning)….anyhow…after giving it some space in like a mini no contact (she texted me on day 7 of it)…I was trying your Tide Theory….and successfully, i could go higher…anyhow, not all the texts where super well thought out….I kinda got the neutral responses… Well, trying to do it with some humor (after waiting a few days after the neutral… Read more »
EGR Team Member: Amor
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EGR Team Member: Amor

Have you been using her topics of interests?

Oliver
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Mostly, yes…I realized I did not all the time, my bad..but I am learning 🙂 Now, a new development….I went from neutral….to positive…to neutral….to NONE! I used two openers with pictures lately…used to be fool proof….NOTHING! A bit back ago, I asked her for a favor (help with my applications and a phd proposal)…sneaky me of course wanted to show some drive and future potential…since this was a big part of her losing her attraction….since 48h…no reaction…I understand that she doesnt have to do it over night …or at all…but i least i hoped for some: Hey, received your mail..cool… Read more »
Matthew
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My ex girlfriend broke up with me back in November and I have not gotten a reason as to why. I made the mistake of begging for her back and to give me a second chance (which she declined). At the time she told me that she would like some space and some time to sort things out on her own. So I tried to do no contact for 30 days in which I was unsuccessful (I broke on day 25) and my ex got mad, threatening that she would block me from social media if I try to reach… Read more »
EGR Team Member: Amor
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EGR Team Member: Amor

HI Matthew,

it looks like you need to move on..

Kevin
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Hello, I’m 25 and my girl is 23. Actually it’s not a normal relationship kind of thing. We started as friend with benefits, but later on we soon became more attached emotionally one another and it goes on and on. At the moment we choose to be friend with benefit since I still have a girlfriend, which later ended up as predicted (not because of this girl) because of family issue. I do love her and give her all that i can, To say that i only want the ‘benefit’ from her is an understatement. But I can understand that… Read more »
EGR Team Member: Amor
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EGR Team Member: Amor

Hi Kevin,

do no contact rule.. Be active in posting even if you’re blocked..just make your posts public because she will eventually get curious on why you’re not chasing..

Kevin
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Thanks for replying Amor.
I’ve been doing the no contact rule for a while, and she’s not showing any improvement that shows she missed me.
Instead i can see she’s getting better at moving on and settled her feeling.
So is there anything u can advise for me on how to reach her and show the ‘new’ me to her?
How do i reach her when she blocked me without getting creepy or looks like a stalker?
We lived in a different city now so it’s kinda impossible to show up unwantedly.

EGR Team Member: Amor
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EGR Team Member: Amor
Mitchel
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I’m 23 and she’s 22. She broke up with me 6 months ago and blocked me because I did all the crazy ex stuff but she still reads my emails but won’t ever respond. I have a thing that tells me how many times a person reads my email and she always reads them multiple times. Why do you think she does that if she supposedly wants nothing to do with me?

EGR Team Member: Amor
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EGR Team Member: Amor

Hi Michel,

Frankly it might be because it feels good to know that somebody is chasing her..

Mitchel
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Alright I’ll stop chasing. No other reason huh? There’s zero chance she actually cares? You would think that if she’s taking the time to read them over and over again that she cares…

EGR Team Member: Amor
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EGR Team Member: Amor

there might be, but if she really wants to get back together, why wouldn’t she right?

Mitchell
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That’s a fair point. Thanks a lot! I appreciate you answering my questions 🙂

EGR Team Member: Amor
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EGR Team Member: Amor

You’re welcome!

Osama Boulos
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Hello; I’m 52, my wife 35. Met her 9 years ago in Egypt while visiting my native country. She comes from a very conservative, religious Christian family; the youngest of three, far younger than the eldest brother ( 9 year age difference ). Her father passed away when she was barely 17. Lived at home in a situation where there was quite a bit of turmoil due to a live in mother in law on the side of her Mom who always caused drama and was a thorn in the marital relationship of her son and daughter in law. I… Read more »
EGR Team Member: Amor
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EGR Team Member: Amor

Hi Osama,

It’s ok to talk to your wife about your child during nc if it’s only about your child. Does she know your mom moved to a nursing home?

nichu
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Please help me. I lost myself, I lost selfrespect. I am in a depression stage. I have done many mistakes because of fear of losing her. I have done all mistakes like emotionally black mailed , angried , hurted, threatened etc…….. . Now she really really hate me. what to do? I need her back. Please please help me

EGR Team Member: Amor
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EGR Team Member: Amor

Hi Nichu,

Get counseling first.. Start with that because its best to get professional help for yourself..

Ancheet
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Let’s say I became the crazy ex boyfriend post breakup
Do I still have a chance?
After NC?

EGR Team Member: Amor
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EGR Team Member: Amor

It depends on how much you continue to improve and build rapporr after nc

Liam
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I have a question. There was a song that I dedicated to this girl that I’m dating. Prior to that she gave me a piece of her earphones and she said I should listen to this song. And we both listened to it. It was perfect by ed sheeran. So the next day I dedicated that song to her via fb messenger. But she already know that same song was also dedicated to me by my ex girlfriend. And for that reason she said we’re done, because she was hurt so much by me. My question is, is that a… Read more »
EGR Team Member: Amor
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EGR Team Member: Amor

Hi Lian,
I can’t say it’s really valid but it can be her reason

James
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Hi there, I was with my girlfriend for 6 months, very happy together until she suddenly felt things weren’t right (We never argued, she also never said if there was a problem). She does struggle with Anxiety if that affects the breakup. I did my 21 days NC, realising where I could improve mentally and physically. Tried texting her today with a short interesting message via text and FB messenger but I was ignored, my FB friend request was also rejected. Any suggestions what I should do? Do I just start NC again and hope it works? My mind drives… Read more »
EGR Team Member: Amor
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EGR Team Member: Amor

Hi James,

It was too early for a friend request..are you back in nc now and what was the text you sent?

Jake
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My girlfriend of 8 months broke up with me about 3 weeks ago. She had become emotionally distant, and I knew something was wrong, but before that everything was perfect. She chose the ‘let em down easy’ route and decided we should’nt try to be friends right away. So, at the moment she is ignoring me and talking to some other guy. I recently broke NC to tell her that if she needed me for anything I would always have her back and help if I could. I’m not sure how to proceed from here. Every day I lose sleep,… Read more »
EGR Team Member: Amor
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EGR Team Member: Amor

Hi Jake,

restart nc, do at least 30 days. Be active in healing, improving yourself and in posting in social media…

goerge
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my ex has fully blocked me on social media and on the phone and when i talked to her face to face she said she didn’t want to talk to me because she wants to move on seriously with her new boyfriend!! how do i aproach her ???

EGR Team Member: Amor
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EGR Team Member: Amor

Hi George,

You can still try the no contact rule if you want to…

Marcus
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Hey Amor, It’s me again, I took all of your advice from previous replies. I somehow ended back here due to some unpredictable situations. We are both 20 she broke up w me 2 1/2 months ago. Went through full no contact, she’s even admittedly mentiond that I have changed & she is still very attracted to me. I have noticed she’s been speaking to this ‘guy’ every day now since the break up, & even when we were cuddling at her house last week (she went under the blankets to reply to him) but insists they’re just friends. It… Read more »
EGR Team Member: Amor
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EGR Team Member: Amor

continue hanging out, texting and phone calls if you can but have your own life too.. making her jealous like that will just push her away.

Dave
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Me and my girlfriend were together for almost 5 years. We were arguing a lot and didn’t respect each other for a lot of years. In the early years there was even some physical abuse on both sides. We even tried to break up a few times but never did. We never had a break period. Fastforward to 2 months ago. I asked my girlfriend if she wanted me to go, she did. So I left the place where I had a job, friends and her family were like my 2nd family. For the first few weeks she was saying… Read more »
EGR Team Member: Amor
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EGR Team Member: Amor

Hi Dave,

nope.. don’t say it, show it.

Tom
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So me and my gf of 2 1/2 years broke up. Everything was fine, we went on a date night, then we were talking about the fight we had the night before, and I let her know I vented to my friend. She immediately got angry. I drove home and she immediatly went to her car. I tried hugging/kissing/ saying I love you, and none were reciprocated. She went home and I texted her that I was done with us. She calls me 20 minutes later and we talk, I told her I didn’t want a break, but she said… Read more »
EGR Team Member: Amor
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EGR Team Member: Amor

Hi TOm,

you basically told her what you’re going to do after no contact period when you told her you want to rebuild the friendship after a few weeks.. She has to think you’re moving on during nc so that she wont be suspicious when you start to slowly build rapport.

Steve
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Please leave her and move on. This behavior will never change, I know I have been seeing this behavior from my now ex for the past 3 years

John
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I was in a strong relationship with a girl for going on two years. What ended up happening is that she “wanted to take a break.” At first I did not want to do it because I really wanted to be with her and even planned on proposing to her in the future, but I want her to be happy. She stated that her reason is because we have to learn to be friends before we can be more than that. I did not want to be just friends with her, but now I do. Basically long story short, she… Read more »
EGR Team Member: Amor
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EGR Team Member: Amor

have you given the jacket?

imran
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me and my ex girlfriend of 3.5 years broke up on the 1st of may 2017 via text, she just said we are on a break. we have been thru a lot together, she lives in my house which makes things difficult for me, as I’ve moved out, we briefly spoke around 2 weeks ago, she said we are not friends and that she now has new friends and she’s apparently spends most of here time away getting drunk now. she was suppose to give me some money for the up keep of the house as she living there and… Read more »
EGR Team Member: Amor
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EGR Team Member: Amor

hi imran,

how are you now?

TyGuy
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Here’s something that just happened that has me turned upside down: Dated a girl for a year, bad break up, she moved on and slept with a guy pretty quickly after. The night I found out, I sent a goodbye email and went no contact. It has been almost three months now and she has reached out sporadically the last two. I have never initiated any conversations. Most of it was to apologize for how things ended (turns out the guy she met after me was abusive and a terrible human). Long story short, this past Friday we talk on… Read more »
EGR Team Member: Amor
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EGR Team Member: Amor

try to slowly build rapport with her again..so, initiate texts.

check this too
My Ex Girlfriend And I Had Sex And She Still Won’t Commit… I’m Confused

Chin
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Hi Chris, I dated my ex for 3 mths and i initiated a breakup due to her distancing herself from me. I sensed the distancing and broke up as I felt there wasn’t a point in continuing. We did stay in touch through text after that and continued meeting up as usual. I felt that as things were going well, I asked if she wanted to continue being together. She told me she couldn’t give me an answer then and I said ok. Vibes were still positive then. As days went by, I started to feel uncomfortable and felt she… Read more »
EGR Team Member: Amor
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EGR Team Member: Amor

Hi Chin,

she more likely just said that out of emotion in the moment..so, just start the no contact rule and focus in improving yourself and be active in posting in social media..do at least 30 days..look like you’re moving on and then slowly build rapport after while you continue improving yourself

David
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Hi, I would like some help here. My gf of 3years broke up with me on December and I took a month of NC dedicated to myself, when I first texted her she was mad at me for doing something to get back with her after so much time, she told me some very bad things but never I did to her. I did another NC about 2 weeks until we saw each other on our university, on st valentines i gave her some chocolates and some flowers all she ways saying was “I don’t know ” and still being… Read more »
EGR Team Member: Amor
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EGR Team Member: Amor

Hi David,

were your attempts really obvious that you’re trying to get her and not just being friendly? and how much did you improve?

Tim
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Me and my girlfriend had gotten into a dumb argument. And some words were exchanged on my end that were possible a little much. I do see that i over reacted to the situation. Couple days later i had messaged her apologizing for being an ass. She had mentioned that she wanted space and did not know if she could be with someone who would talk to her that way. I again apologized and said i wanted to make it up to her. She said she needed time. So i told her alright i respect your decision. Couple days later… Read more »
EGR Team Member: Amor
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EGR Team Member: Amor

HI Tim

how much did you improve during nc? And are you still improving now? And you also need to work on your topics..

Tim
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Yes I do feel like I’ve made an improvement on myself. Thinking before I say things, instead of saying rude things. I will continue to do so, as well as improve myself in general. As far as topics, what would be the appropriate conversation to throw out there in the situation I am in. As well when I should try contacting her again, or if I should wait for her to contact me

EGR Team Member: Amor
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EGR Team Member: Amor

You need to list the topics that she always loves talking about. Ask, or give info about it. It’s ok to initiate as long as you’re the one ending the conversation at high point. Wait a week from now before trying again.

Tim
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If I may ask, what exactly is it you are referring to as the high point? I can do that, I will try again in a week

Tim
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Also she sleeps all the time so i would always give her a hard time and joke around about it. Was just a joke between us. Would it be appropriate to send like a funny meme or something like that?

EGR Team Member: Amor
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EGR Team Member: Amor

High point is where you’re having a good conversation and before the conversation gets boring. It’s ok to send funny messages and jokes.

tim
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I waited a couple weeks before messaging her again. This time with a more interesting message. I did get a reply after a couple hours. I waited an hour before messaging back, then she replied immediately. A couple messages back and forth, then I ended it. That was it she did not reply to that message. Now should I wait for her to message me first?

EGR Team Member: Amor
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EGR Team Member: Amor

Nope..you can initiate again the next day after that..

Francis
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Hey, last week i met with her. everything felt “friendly”. at the end i invited her to the movies for the end of the week and the day before she canceled by only saying ” i really can’t go” i feel like she just doesnt want to see me at all or doing “couple” things. so i then said “it’s alright we’ll try some other day.” and immediately started a NC (been 4days) She hasnt given any sign of life yet. should i try and invite her to drink a coffee next week or just let go and let her… Read more »
EGR Team Member: Amor
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EGR Team Member: Amor

Hi Francis,

if she’s not ready for that phase, go back to building more rapport in texts or calls..

Eric
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So my ex broke up with me over a month ago. Things where ok. I didn’t beg or plead I’d text her an there we where on good speaking terms. She went through a rough relationship an asked me to give her space she said we moved to fast 8 months we were together for. So after a few weeks people came up to me telling me she left me for another man. Typical he said she said this happened twice an when I confronted her about it she was cool at first then got really upset I kept asking… Read more »
EGR Team Member: Amor
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EGR Team Member: Amor

Hi Eric,

do no contact rule..it’s your only better choice than to keep bugging her or to move on

peter
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hi hope you can help but I never seen anything about my case on your website I was with my ex gf for 4 years she is thai im english, she dumped me for the 2nd time in April of 2016. then in june 2016 she met a new guy who was in Thailand on holiday for 2 weeks then he went home again so she is in ldr with him im in Uk and in august when I found out about the new guy I told her im not interested in friendship. we then sent each other a few… Read more »
EGR Team Member: Amor
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EGR Team Member: Amor

Hi Peter,

that’s hard to tell because she’s not replying. It can be because she’s busy. If you can ask your friend to talk to her do so. If she still doesn’t reply to her, then just get it personally when you get back.

eren
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hi peter i think shes testing the waters with the new guy

peter
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hi hope you can help but I never seen anything about my case on your website I was with my ex gf for 4 years she is thai im english, she dumped me for the 2nd time in April of 2016. then in june 2016 she met a new guy who was in Thailand on holiday for 2 weeks then he went home again so she is in ldr with him im in Uk and in august when I found out about the new guy I told her im not interested in friendship. we then sent each other a few… Read more »
EGR Team Member: Amor
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EGR Team Member: Amor

Hi Peter,

that’s hard to tell because she’s not replying. It can be because she’s busy. If you can ask your friend to talk to her do so. If she still doesn’t reply to her, then just get it personally when you get back.

Jo
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Hi. My girlfriend of 2 years just dumped me. She went abroad for a student exchange for a semester. We’ve been fighting a lot, but things seemed to be getting slowly better before in happened. She’s done the same, exact thing one year ago (again, shortly before my brithday). This time she didn’t even bother to look at me – just told me via Skype with no camera on. Now, however crazy it may seem, I do want her back. She’s a typical runner and a fragile type. I also suspect it may go deeper – both now and a… Read more »
Ross
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Just posting a comment here is a big step for me as I am dealing with a hard situation. So to make a long story short: Girl (21) and I (27) were set up by a friend and her parent, and dated for about a month and a half before she went on a family vacation. Things went very well and we had instant chemistry in all aspects. Before and during her trip, we snapped, texted, called often and I had no doubts that things were heading in a very special direction. I was confident and secure in how we… Read more »
Andrei
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So here’s one: So I’v been with this girl for 3 years. It was a good relationship. She would always tell me that I’m perfect for her. Although, he is a very emotional creature, more the most girls I have encountered. May be from her parents being extremely emotional and maybe unstable as they would might and break up and get back together many times. I’m usually a very calm and collected person and I deal with people fairly so we were able to handle each other. She would play games with me though and get a tad crazy for,… Read more »
EGR Team Member: Amor
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EGR Team Member: Amor

Hi Andrei,

are you still talking now?

Andrei
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We are still talking. We had a long conversation last week. She had a fight with her bf that night. She told me that they have a rocky relationship. So I assume that means they fight a lot more then she admits but wants to save face around me. Anyway, she did not talk to me after that (been a week). I’m guessing her and the bf were not fighting last week or what else could it be? ( Convo was good and she talked to me till she fell asleep (was 12 midnight there)) I texted her every other… Read more »
James
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My ex broke up with me about 6 weeks ago. We only dated for about 2 months but we met at our university. We were in the same class and we spent about 2 weeks studying, grabbing food, etc. Before we went on our first date. I thought it was nice to build some interest in those initial weeks and me asking her out was a no brainer. We are both 24 years old by the way. We spent 2 months hangout and having a great time, and made plans weeks in advance. She expressed how comfortable she was with… Read more »
EGR Team Member: Amor
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EGR Team Member: Amor

Hi James,
have you started to talk again now?

Edwards
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My girlfriend left me about 2 weeks ago after a year and 4 months of dating and almost instantly she hooked up with her ex in like a couple days. Her reasoning for doing so was because we argued to much. I made the mistake of begging for her back 2 seperate times im pretty sure she’s annoyed. She hasn’t blocked me or unfollowed me on any social media at all I’ve un added her on Snapchat tho because i couldn’t stand seeing her with him how do i work this situation and is this a rebound?

EGR Team Member: Amor
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EGR Team Member: Amor

Hi Edwards,

if she left you because of him, it’s a grass is greener case..do nc and just improve yourself

James
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EGR TEAM MEMBER: AMOR,
I have not contact her and she has not contacted me. I figured that she will reach out to me when things have died down but it still hasn’t happened. I have not texted, called, liked any status on social media, or anything in that nature. I have been focusing on having fun with friends and working on myself. I think that if she was interested she would have contacted me in some form, but nothing yet.

cassandra
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hello , me and my ex gf live together. weve lived together 2 years now but she broke it off with me last year sometime. after she did that we still did things like hug and send sweet texts and share the same room.things seemed okay. few weeks ago i asked her to hang out and she said she does not want a date because she doesnt have feelings for me like that just as a friend. i asked her if dates and being together again are out of the question and she said yes. then on the phone she… Read more »
EGR Team Member: Amor
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EGR Team Member: Amor

Hi Cassandra,

she friendzoned you.. you’re going to have to do limited no contact

jay
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Hi amor, I been bombarding her with texts and calls, desperately sending her love letters and stuff. since feb 2016, been distant and cold. did a NC for like a week and she calls me looking for me but that’s like 3-4 months ago. but since june 11, I been calling and texting her. but she ended up partial block me,. I can email and imessage sometimes, but to take care of stuff only, now that I done what she told me she ignoring me for the past two days. she been really mean to me and cold, pretty much… Read more »
EGR Team Member: Amor
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EGR Team Member: Amor

Hi Jay,

the first nc was too short.. and because of the past events I think you should do 45 days.. and then focus in improving yourself

Jay
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Thanks amor, I just received a text message last friday, just one text : it is me. im thinking she doesnt want to say good morning or greet me. I feel like she hates me and wants me to stay away. we just recently divorce and its a long distance relationship,
Please help,. tks

Jay
Guest

she knows im always there for her, she knows im predictable. i have my names in certain things, should i remove my name that is related to her to make her feel like im moving on?

EGR Team Member: Amor
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EGR Team Member: Amor

if she hates you then that’s why you need to stick to this nc.. what do you mean by the names?

Cody
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Hey there, my ex is 27 I am 22. Basically what happened was we were having a couple weeks of frustration and fighting with each other, she was demanding more affection from me but I felt so insecure that I couldn’t show it because she told me she lost my trust over something we both knew was trivial and not a threat to the relationship, although I said my apologies so many times. she finally told me look, we’re just dating but you can see other people. later that night we were texting and sending cute pictures two nights in… Read more »
EGR Team Member: Amor
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EGR Team Member: Amor

Hi Cody,

try 30 days.. and if you don’t want to text until she does even if it’s past 30 days, go ahead.. and yes, you have to be productive

Garry
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Hey um hoping I can get some help here, me and my ex broke up 3 yrs now and I’m trying to get back with her, yea I know bit too late, well I said some terrible things to her before and I apologised and she forgave me but now I asked her to hang out. She just broke up with her recent bf as well and so she told me to give her some space which I’m it’s going to be 21 days this Friday but she hasn’t contacted me yet. Me being an idiot just before the no… Read more »
EGR Team Member: Amor
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EGR Team Member: Amor

Hi,

it was too forward…she probably just wants to heal right now.. you have to give her more time.. maybe 2-3 months and then don’t ask for her back right ahead.. be friendly only at first and then build rapport

Scott
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Hello, I am in ‘quite a unique situation here. My ex girlfriend and I stopped talking in March for about 2 months because she didn’t know if she could ever be with me again (I wasn’t the best boyfriend to her) and she found a new guy. I went with the flow and did NC effectively. During this time, I was away doing an internship and about 2 weeks after I moved back home I reached out to her when I heard her and her new guy ended things. The talking was casual and we would just send each other… Read more »
EGR Team Member: Amor
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EGR Team Member: Amor

Hi Scott,

I think you went too fast.. lay low for now and then don’t sleep with each other again..maybe rest from texting for a week and then slowly build rapport after that

Steve
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Thanks for all of the info, I have been reading a lot, trying to decide how to approach everything. She broke up with me a month ago. Her reasons changed, but here is a synopsis: We fell for eachother very quickly, great 2 months, then then she had a fight with her sisters(who live with her) and parents about me being around and staying over too much. The dad outlawed any one from staying over, and since then everything flipped on its head. She claimed she needed to fix the relationship with her family and couldn’t do that while dating… Read more »
EGR Team Member: Amor
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EGR Team Member: Amor

Hi Steve,

you need to stick nc..the only reason you can break it is if she wants to get back with you.. if there are really important matter that can’t wait after nc, you can talk to her but only about that matter

Nate
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My ex and I have been broken up for almost a year now. We dated six months but got pretty serious. We had a really good relationship and even after the breakup she still said I was the best boyfriend she ever had. She is also close friends with my sister and we share several mutual friends. Initially we tried being friends but I found out she was lying to me and several of our friends about having begun a relationship with another guy (i made it clear I was angry with the lies not that she was dating him)… Read more »
EGR Team Member: Amor
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EGR Team Member: Amor

HI Nate,

can your friend tell her that you didn’t hack it is she believes your friend more than you..

Jonathan
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Hi, Me and my ex broke up in February and I made a lot of mistakes. It was a long distance relationship. I hurt her quite a lot but from March until now I’ve been messaging and emailing her to try to get her to speak to me. Trying to show her that I’m different now. She blocked me off everything around April and she only told me in May that we are completely done and she doesn’t want to speak to me again. She currently has exams until next month and yesterday I told her I won’t send her… Read more »
EGR Team Member: Amor
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EGR Team Member: Amor

Hi Jonathan,

Try the no contact rule first.. do it until her exams so you can give her space.. and then improve yourself physically and go out more with friends while you’re in nc.

Tim
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I was reading this forum and my girlfriend broke up with me about 1 month ago but we sort of got distant about 3 months ago, we still talked and I stayed over her house everynight until about a month ago then she just pulled the pin and seems to have done it so easily, I tried to be the bigger person and understand that she just wants her space & wants to find herself but I went into the nagging stage of ringing & calling her flat out, and we were still talking but I think I have ruined… Read more »
EGR Team Member: Amor
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EGR Team Member: Amor

Hi Tim,
do 45 days and just focus in improving yourself

Jonathan
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Hi, My ex broke up with me 5 weeks ago due to long distance (we had been a couple for 2.5 years long distance and she couldnt do it any longer as I live In Italy and she lives in England). We were very commited and saw each other every 2 or 3 weeks, even in random cities if it was too expensive to go to our homes. For the first two weeks I stayed in contact with her, seemed needy desperate and was trying to get back with her. Then she told me she slept with another guy (although… Read more »
EGR Team Member: Amor
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EGR Team Member: Amor

agree with her that you need space to really fully heal and then do another 21 days.. be focused on building a new daily routine and in maintaining yourself..

Jonathan
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Thanks for help! But what does this anger in her mean? And the end I’m giving her friendship which is what she wanted! Do you think this anger shows feelings are still there and I could maybe try save our relationship? In my email I brought back a lto of memories and I guess that made her sad/angry

EGR Team Member: Amor
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EGR Team Member: Amor

yeah, I think it brought back bad memories..so just go easy on that.

T
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I broke up with my girlfriend 4 months ago and want to get back. We were together for 5+ years and shared plenty of happy memories together. We haven’t had any sort of communication until a couple days ago when I sent her a casual email (I do not have any of her contacts, she removed me from social media and changed her phone number) bringing up a concert she might be interested in looking into (I did not mention together), and asked how she was doing. She deleted me from social media, but I don’t think she blocked me.… Read more »
EGR Team Member: Amor
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EGR Team Member: Amor

Hi T,

she didn’t reply to your email? yeah, I think you should start by adding her back first

Kole
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Im in a very unique situation with my ex girlfriend. I went through a long period of no contact, approximately 2 months, and i still have not heard back from her. She has me blocked on every social media account out there and even had her phone number changed. I could still see some of her posts from other peoples accounts though. She was in a rebound relationship like within a month of our breakup of the our three year relationship. But yet she still would tweet sad things and even song lyrics about breaking up. Slowly those posts have… Read more »
EGR Team Member: Amor
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EGR Team Member: Amor
Hi Kole, you have to start a no contact that is for you. SO, that you can start to heal and improve yourself.. It’s not just about stopping to talk to her.. It’s about making a change in you and once she sees you’re starting to move on, there’s a chance she might unblock you but after your no contact, continue the activities you started and maintain being the alpha male. I think you should do 30 days. And then after that if you’re unblocked, don’t approach her romantically because she’s protective of her current relationship. You have to be… Read more »
XX
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well falling in love for the first time at 29 its not pretty i can tell you that 🙂 … i ended up in the crazy boyfriends category and the most hardest part is that we work together… and every time i see her my heart stops / i cant breath cant talk or focus normal at work – and its been like this the last 2 months. any tips? im out of options here

EGR Team Member: Amor
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EGR Team Member: Amor

HI XX,
have you started to do new things to improve yourself and to go out with friends, especially if you can meet new people?

Marc
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Hi, my gf broke up one month and 15 days ago and she is ignoring me. We had a relationship with lot of passion but lot of jealousy too… I was so jealous that I hit her… and I was often mean to her because I had jealousy crisis. And then I apologized and felt so horrible to have been like that toward the girl I love the most. But the few days before the break up we argues too much and I was again violent. So she left me and said that she loved me so much but she… Read more »
EGR Team Member: Amor
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EGR Team Member: Amor

Hi Marc,

apologize sincerely first. if you’re still blocked, of course you have no choice but to wait it out and while you’re waiting out, improve yourself but don’t do any jealousy moves.

Jerry Flores
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Yes you guys have been amazing in the past with advice . I left a comment and some how it’s not on here . Me and my ex gf been up and down for seven months . It’s super hard ever since I moved back to the states . I am trying to transfer back in August . My ex came back maybe a month ago on a business trip and we hung out and one thing led to another and things we great once again . When she went back to Japan everything was going great . We were… Read more »
Jerry Flores
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Well me and my ex were doing good at communicating again . Then we got into an argument about her putting out my business to another random guy . So we got into argument and she told me not to contact her . Well a week went by and I contacted her . She told me if I remembered what she told me. ” if I contact her she will block me ” but then she iniated conversation and opened up about her mom having cancer that spread . So course I care about her and just listened . And… Read more »
EGR Team Member: Amor
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EGR Team Member: Amor

Yeah but all she sees right now is that you want you to get back with her and she doesn’t want it.. I think you should text her that you’re not pushing to get back,, you’re just here as a friend, so that she can have someone to talk to.

Jerry
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Well of course I want to get back with her . I was actually in a worse place with her but she lives in another country and I had to come back to the states . But when we caught up it was like old times . Didn’t talk about our past and enjoyed each other’s company . I plan on moving back for a job that’s in her country . I do not want to push at all . Just like when we went on date when she came down everything happened naturally .

EGR Team Member: Amor
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EGR Team Member: Amor

of course you do.. but that’s not what she wants right ahead.. take it slow, build attraction first..
So, don’t chase and don’t fight with her.. Have you gone in active no contact? meaning improving yourself and not just stopping to talk to her?